Working with Professionals

A collaborative, trauma-informed partner for solicitors, mediators, therapists and schools supporting clients through separation.

Who I work with…

  • Family law solicitors and collaborative lawyers

  • Family mediators

  • Therapists and counsellors

  • Schools

  • Family support charities and services

If you share the values of compassion, neutrality and trauma-informed care, this is a natural partnership.

STOUR NCDR — A Collaborative Two-Way Network

I'm an active member of the Stour NCDR (Non-Court Dispute Resolution) professional network — a group of family law and dispute resolution professionals across Kent committed to helping families resolve separation outside of court wherever possible.

How I can support your clients…

1:1 Divorce Coaching — Emotional clarity, decision-making support, co-parenting challenges, and rebuilding identity — so your clients arrive at legal conversations calmer and clearer.


Collaborative Coaching for Couples — For couples navigating an amicable separation, joint sessions can reduce conflict and support more peaceful outcomes, particularly where children are involved.


Court & Process Support — Emotional preparation for hearings, mediation sessions, or parenting arrangement discussions.


Group Workshops— Covering self-regulation, co-parenting, managing transitions, and rebuilding identity after divorce.

Training & CPD for professionals…

Alongside direct client work, training and CPD sessions are available for professional teams — solicitors, mediators, school staff, or wider practice teams — covering topics such as:

  • The nervous-system basics of separation: what's actually happening in a dysregulated client, and why it affects decision-making

  • Recognising dysregulation and trauma responses in client meetings

  • Trauma-informed communication for high-stress conversations

  • Supporting neurodivergent clients through separation and family breakdown

  • Safeguarding awareness in a family transition context

Get in touch to discuss a session tailored to your team.

Something to share with your clients…

A free Separation Survival Pack — practical tools and grounding practices for anyone navigating this process — is available to download and share directly with your own clients. See the Resources page, or get in touch for a printable version for your office or waiting room.

Why professionals choose to refer…

Most local divorce support either focuses purely on the legal and financial side, or offers general life coaching that isn't built for the emotional complexity of separation. This work is different — genuinely trauma-informed, with a foundation in nervous system regulation, and specific experience with neurodivergent clients.


That means your clients get support that:

✔ Understands the legal process without overstepping into legal advice

✔ Helps clients regulate enough to make sound, lasting decisions — not panicked ones

✔ Recognises safeguarding and domestic abuse concerns when they arise

✔ Supports children as well as adults, without you needing a second referral elsewhere

Let’s Talk…

If you'd like to discuss a referral pathway, a specific client situation, or a training session for your team, get in touch.